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“Any message you try to convey must contain a piece of you.”

A thought by John C. Maxwell from his book, Everyone Communicates, Few Connect. (p. 50). HarpersCollins Leadership Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

Ok, ok, John, what does that mean?

John says, “You can’t just deliver words. You can’t merely convey information. You need to be more than just a messenger. You must be the message you want to deliver. Otherwise, you won’t have credibility and you won’t connect.”

He goes on, “Have you ever had to communicate someone else’s vision? It’s very difficult to do, isn’t it? It’s hard to get excited when you’re presenting someone else’s ideas. Yet, if you work in any kind of organization and you’re not the top leader, that is exactly what you are expected to do. How can you do that with credibility? By making it your vision. By that, I mean that you must first discover how the vision positively impacts you. You must connect with it on a personal level. Once you have done that, you will be able to do more than simply relay information. You will be able to convey inspiration. Nothing can happen through you until it happens to you.

“This kind of ownership is necessary not only for leaders and speakers but also for authors. For a book to connect with readers, it must be more than just a book. It must possess a part of the author. Otherwise, it lacks authenticity and credibility. It can have great information, but it can still fall flat if the author does not connect with readers.”

He says, “As important as it is for a message to be heartfelt and genuine, that, of course, isn’t enough. Your message must also be more than just a message. It must have value. It must deliver on the promise it offers to its audience. It must have the potential to change other people’s lives. That’s my goal every time I write a book or prepare to speak to an audience.

“Many times each year I am engaged as a speaker for companies and other organizations. Often I request a call with someone in the organization prior to the speaking engagement so I can learn the expectations of my host and the background of my audience. My goal is never to simply deliver a speech. I want to add value to people. And to have a chance to do that, what I say and do must be within the context of the bigger picture of the organization’s purpose, mission, and goals. I always spend time tailoring what I’m going to say to fit what they need.

“After I’ve finished speaking, I also take time to evaluate whether I connected with my audience and helped my sponsor. I do that by going through my Connection Checklist, which includes the following questions:

v INTEGRITY—Did I do my best?
v EXPECTATION—Did I please my sponsor?
v RELEVANCE—Did I understand and relate to the audience?
v VALUE—Did I add value to the people?
v APPLICATION—Did I give people a game plan?
v CHANGE—Did I make a difference?

John then says, “If I can honestly answer yes to those questions, I feel certain that my connection with the audience was good and I was able to reward them for the time they’ve given me.

And that is a very good thing to want, isn’t it?

Yes, yes!

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