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“Some people don’t just worry occasionally. They worry recreationally.”

A thought by John Ortberg from his book, The Me I Want to Be (p. 117). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) But is that something to feel guilty about? John says, “Maybe you are a champion worrier. Maybe you can’t remember the last time you were not worried. If you ever find yourself not worried, you get worried that there is something you should be worried about. And so, you worry until you figure out what it is. Sometimes when you hear messages or read books about worry, they can do more harm than good, because what you take away is, I shouldn’t worry so much. I guess I just don’t trust God enough. Then you worry about how much you worry.” He goes on, “Much of our tendency to worry comes from the raw material we were born with. In his book Emotional Intelligence , Daniel Goleman writes that from birth, 15 – 20 percent of children are prone to timidity. They are finicky about new foods, reluctant abou...

“That one character brings the gift of a non-anxious presence.”

A thought by John Ortberg from his book, The Me I Want to Be (p. 115). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) Now, what does a non-anxious presence mean?   Thanks for asking! John explains, “A non-anxious presence works like this: A group of people at home or work face a problem and as one person after another hits the panic button, pretty soon everyone is anxious. They repeat each others’ worries and ratchet them up another few degrees. It is contagious. “Then they notice someone among them who isn’t afraid, someone fully aware of the problem but calm and able to plan with quiet confidence. That spirit begins to spread. Everyone begins to calm down. That one character brings the gift of a non-anxious presence. It brings the assurance that people’s well-being is not at risk. “Jesus was once napping in a boat with his friends when a storm came. They woke him up, terrified, and Jesus looked out at t...

“Try a thought experiment: Imagine not being afraid anymore.”

A thought by John Ortberg from his book, The Me I Want to Be (p. 115). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) Fear can be a major debilitating problem, can’t it?  But let's imagine.  John goes on, “Imagine facing financial difficulties or an irate boss with inner poise and resolve. Imagine receiving bad news and generating constructive ways to solve the problem rather than spiraling through the worst-case scenarios. Imagine facing rejection and obstacles without giving in to discouragement. Imagine acknowledging the mistakes you have made, moving confidently into the future. Imagine doing all of this with God as your partner and friend. Now imagine people around you coming to you when they are upset or discouraged because they find that your peace of mind is contagious. He then says, “The mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace, and what you are imagining is your mind immersed in the Spiri...