“How long has it been since you felt a level of contagious, infectious, unflappable, unstoppable happiness?”

A thought by Max Lucado from his book, How Happiness Happens (p. 4). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

That is a great question, isn’t it?

Max says, “Maybe your answer is ‘I feel that way all the time.’ If so, God bless you…  For many, perhaps most of us, the answer is ‘Well, it’s been a while. I used to be happy, but then life took its toll.’”

Later he says, “The oft-used front door to happiness is the one described by the advertising companies: acquire, retire, and aspire to drive faster, dress trendier, and drink more. Happiness depends on what you hang in your closet, park in your garage, mount on your trophy wall, deposit in your bank account, experience in your bedroom, wear on your wedding finger or serve at your dining table. Happiness happens when you lose the weight, get the date, find the mate, or discover your fate. It’s wide, this front door to happiness.”

Max says, “There is another option. It requires no credit card, monthly mortgage, or stroke of fortune. It demands no airline tickets or hotel reservations. It stipulates no Ph.D., MD, or blue-blood pedigree. Age, ethnicity, and gender are not factors. Balmy climates, blue skies, and Botox are not mandated. No resources for psychoanalysis, plastic surgery, or hormone therapy? No problem. You don’t have to change jobs, change cities, change looks, or change neighborhoods.

“But you might need to change doors.

“The motto on the front door says, ‘Happiness happens when you get.’ The sign on the lesser-used back door counters ‘Happiness happens when you give.’

“Doing good does good for the doer.”

We skip ahead. Max says, “Seeking joy? Do good for someone else. A tender example of this truth came my way just today. I met with a husband and daughter to plan the funeral of the wife and mother. Patty was the picture of unselfishness. We tried to imagine how many kids she had hugged, diapers she had changed, children she had taught, and hearts she had encouraged. To see her smile was to see springtime thaw the winter ice.

“Three months ago a brain condition had left her unable to speak, partially paralyzed, and living in a rehabilitation center. Her spirits sank so low she did not want to eat and had trouble sleeping. One evening her daughter had an idea. She placed her mother in a wheelchair and rolled her from room to room, looking for people who needed encouragement. It didn’t take long.

“Though unable to speak, Patty could touch and pray. So she did both. She patted other patients and then placed her hand on their hearts and bowed her head. For the better part of the evening, she touched and prayed her way through the rehab center. That night her appetite returned, and she slept peacefully.”

Max then says, “The words of Jesus are spot-on: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive’ (Acts 20:35). Because when you do, it has a boomerang effect. Happiness happens when we give it away.”

It really does  So, let’s start with giving a smile, Ok? 

Yes, yes!