A thought by John C. Maxwell, from his
book, The Difference Maker (p. 33). HarperCollins Leadership. Kindle
Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)
Ok, then let’s look at this.
John says, “It not only helps with
little issues, but it also provides a positive framework from which a person
can approach all of life.”
He later says, “The happiest people
in life don’t necessarily have the best of everything. They just try to make
the best of everything. They’re like the person in a remote village going to a
well every day to get water who says, ‘Every time I come to this well, I come
away with my bucket full!’ instead of, ‘I can’t believe I have to keep coming
back to this well to fill up my bucket!’
“A person’s attitude has a profound
influence on his approach to life. Ask a coach before a big game whether his
attitude and that of his players will make a difference in the outcome of the
game. Ask a surgeon if the patient’s attitude matters when she’s trying to save
that life in an emergency room. Ask a teacher if students’ attitudes have an
impact before they take a test.”
He then says, “One of the things I’ve
learned is that life often gives you whatever you expect from it. If you expect
bad things, those are what you get. If you expect good things, you often
receive them. I don’t know why it works that way, but it does. If you don’t
believe me, try it out. Give yourself thirty days in which you expect the best
of everything: the best parking place, the best table in the restaurant, the
best interaction with clients, the best treatment from service people. You’ll
be surprised by what you encounter, especially if you give your very best to
others in every situation as well.”
Will you strive today to work on your
attitude and expectations? Will you?
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