"You aren’t just a result of what you say."

A thought by T. D. Jakes, from his book, Don't Drop the Mic (p. 26). FaithWorks, Kindle Edition.  (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.)

That is so true.

J. D. says, "You are a result of who you listen to most often, engage with consistently, and spend time around socially! Who are you listening to? And did you ever realize that simply listening to them and dialoging consistently with them is programming you even after you walk away?"

He goes on, "Sitting in counsel with those who communicate the way we wish we could can often improve our speaking styles. This sharpening can ultimately improve your economic bottom line, result in invitations to new opportunities, and enhance the number and quality of your relationships. Just as dogs hear high-pitched whistles that fall silent on human ears, our communication style will attract some and be ignored by others. All the more reason to be heard by those whose success you wish to emulate!"

He then says, "Let me ask you again: Who are you listening to? More important, who is listening to you?"

And both of those are good questions, aren't they?

Yes, yes!