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“Those desires are God’s gift to you.”

A thought by John Ortberg from his book, The Me I Want to Be (p. 82). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

It seems that we may have some confusion on the matter of desires.

John says, “God made you with desires, and he wants you to desire him most of all — but not only to desire him. Part of trying softer is allowing what we naturally desire around us to lead us back to God. There is a pattern to your desires — certain activities, sensations, people, and thoughts that wake up the ‘got-to-have’ response in you. Those desires are God’s gift to you. They are part of the you God wants you to be.”

John goes on, “When people enjoy what God has created, his heart is pleased. However, many people think, If I want to be spiritual, I have to avoid sin, and the best way to avoid sin would be to just do away with desire altogether.  If I just didn’t want sex or money or food or success, I would be really spiritual because then I wouldn’t sin. But then you wouldn’t be human, either. A slab of cement doesn’t have to worry about weeds — but it will also never be a garden.

“Uncorrupted by sin, desire is fabulous — fabulous because it is part of God’s design. The psalmist says to God, ‘You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing. The LORD is righteous in all his ways and loving toward all he has made... He fulfills the desires of those who fear him.’ (Psalm 145:16 NIV)”

John then says, “God is a desire-creating, desire-satisfying God. He made birds with the impulse to fly — they want to do it because God made them to do it. Dolphins swim because God made them with an instinct to swim. God doesn’t plant wrong desires in his creatures.”

He later says, “A beautiful prayer from the Book of Common Prayer begins, ‘Most Holy God, the source of all good desires.…’ God created desire, and it is God’s delight to fulfill desire. I know that my desires are distorted by sin and need to be cleansed, purified, and retrained. This is what Jesus refers to when he says, ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.’ (Mark 8:34) We must say no to any desires that would keep us from living in the flow of the Spirit. We must always be ready to sacrifice a lesser desire for the sake of living a greater life.

“On the other hand, nothing makes a human being more vulnerable to temptation than a joyless life. God’s plan is that every time we experience an authentic desire — a God-implanted desire in us — we come to understand more deeply what a good God he is. We learn how God has wired us and what he wants us to do. As a result, we find ourselves loving this great God more and more. This is how we ‘taste and see’ that the Lord is good, and our desire can be part of this river of life that flows in us with power and energy.”

He is so good, isn’t He?

Yes, yes!

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