“Because your body was made by God, you also have appetites for things to eat, drink, touch, and see — physical desires.”
A thought by John Ortberg from his
book, The Me I Want to Be (p. 86).
Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to
buy the book.)
We know about physical desires, don’t
we?
John says, “The Old Testament is
filled with commands for God’s people to feast, eat, drink, celebrate, sing,
dance, shout, and make music — all things we do with our bodies. These
appetites, desires, and delights can then become a way of remembering how good
our God is and can lead us to become more joy-filled people.
“God loves it when you enjoy
stretching or training your body in new skills, or when you enjoy what your
eyes see, your ears hear, your mouth tastes, and your skin feels. The physical
is not separate from the spiritual; it is the Spirit who makes our bodies come
to life.”
He goes, on, “Have you ever had the
desire to be physically attractive? (I will ask that once in a while at
churches, but no one ever raises their hand.) This needs to be kept in proper
perspective, of course, for the writer of Proverbs did warn, ‘Like a gold ring
in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.’ (Proverbs
11:22) Beauty of character is a greater
good than exterior beauty — but God did create our bodies. So can we get real?
God made us with a love of beauty.
“Some stylists I know once started
what they called a ‘hairdressers ministry.’ At first it sounded odd to me. The
only hairstylist I could think of in the Bible was Delilah, and that didn’t
turn out so well. But serving people by cutting their hair is a good thing, and
people will sometimes tell things to the person cutting their hair that they
don’t tell anyone else.
“This group began giving complimentary
haircuts to physically challenged and mentally challenged folks, and then they
traveled to Costa Rica to serve young women trying to escape a life of
prostitution. The stylists cared for bodies without wanting anything in return.
They honored and freely served bodies that had not been honored or served for a
long time, bodies that had been turned into objects. What they did touches our
hearts deeply because our bodies were made by God — they are precious to him.”
John continues, “It is a good thing to
eat food you love to eat, wear clothes you love to wear, listen to music that
makes you feel glad, and then to thank God that he gave you your body so you
can see and hear and touch and laugh and dance. As you open yourself to the
flow of the Spirit in your physical desires, you begin to love God more and
more, not because you should or because it’s commanded, but because when you
get to know him, you just can’t help it. What else could you do?
“Hardly anything gives me more joy
than when I get to give to one of my kids. When I do and their face lights up
because I have satisfied a deep desire in them, that is the best. Of course, I
don’t want them to become selfish, and so I often try to monitor their
character to know when denial is required. But all of that is remedial stuff.
It is not my ultimate goal. I just love it when I can give and they light up.
“That is the best.”
And it really is, isn’t it?
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