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“Wise people know when they don’t know.”

A thought by Andy Stanley, (2009-04-23) from his book, The Best Question Ever (p. 165). The Doubleday Religious Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

And then he follows that with, “The fool is the person who convinces himself that he knows more than he really knows and doesn’t need to ask anybody anything. At the end of the day, the wise man breaths a sigh of relief; the fool, a sigh of regret.”

And that is so easy to do in making decisions because it is built into us that we need to believe in ourselves.  Have confidence but it is also very important to have humility.  And humility means we have a true assessment of our abilities and we understand our limitations and our need to ask for help when we know we need it.  But pride gets in the way of humility doesn’t it?  So we tread in places where we convince ourselves that we know more than we really know and we don’t need anybody’s help.  That is where the sleepless, restless nights come in.

But we are afraid to ask because we think it shows we are weak. 

Andy says, “Bottom line, when we resist presenting our options to the wise people around us for fear of hearing what we don’t want to hear, we are fools. When we insist on ignoring the warning signs and pressing on anyway, we are fools. And in the end, we pay. Fools always pay.”

So which do you want to be, a wise person or a fool?

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