"My clients want me to function like a giant eraser."

A thought by H. Norman Wright from his book, When the Past Won't Let You Go (p. 19). Harvest House Publishers. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.)

But is that possible?

Norman says, "I’ve been asked, 'Can’t you do something about these memories to get rid of them?' My clients want me to function like a giant eraser. Short of severe trauma, I don’t think there is such a thing as a memory eraser. Memories can be dulled by chemical substance use, but that is temporary and eventually causes more problems. Some individuals vacillate between a 'rid the memory' agenda to a 'just forget the past' agenda. Within some Christian circles, a common response to people dominated by the past is Paul’s admonition recorded in Philippians 3:13 (NLT): 'Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead…' I like what Robert D. Jones said about what is possible since our goal as believers is Christlikeness: 'The good news is that if you belong to Jesus, God does have something better for you. God does not want to remove your memories; he wants to redeem them. He wants to transform them into something good, something that will make you more like Jesus.' Your memories can be opportunities for growth. Jones said, 'You do not need to avoid, run from, cover over, or get rid of your past. God’s goal is neither memory erasure nor memory denial.' (1)"

And we want growth, don't we?

Yes, yes!

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