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“Choose to encourage rather than criticize.”

A thought by Rick Warren, (2012-10-23) from his book, The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? (p. 210). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

In this chapter, Rick is dealing with people in the church.  And it is also a good thought to be carried over to other relationships in our lives.

In dealing with the church though Rick says, “It is always easier to stand on the sidelines and take shots at those who are serving than it is to get involved and make a contribution.”  And then the Apostle Paul in Romans 14:10 (PH) said, “Why, then, criticize your brother’s actions, why try to make him look small? We shall all be judged one day, not by each other’s standards or even our own, but by the standard of Christ.”

Rick then says, “Whenever I judge another believer, four things instantly happen: I lose fellowship with God, I expose my own pride and insecurity, I set myself up to be judged by God, and I harm the fellowship of the church. A critical spirit is a costly vice.”

Paul also said in Romans 14:19 (MSG), “Let’s agree to use all our energy in getting along with each other. Help others with encouraging words; don’t drag them down by finding fault.”

We all need each other’s encouragement, don’t we?  We don’t need to do the Enemy’s work for him.  The Bible says that he is “the accuser of our brothers.”  Encourage each other.  Life is tough and we really do need each other. 

Now if you are slipping into criticizing others then stop and see where it is coming from.  There is probably something that you need to deal with in your own self.  Maybe it is pride or maybe some unconfessed sin or even some unforgiveness toward someone.  Let the Holy Spirit search your heart and show you where the critical spirit is coming from.

Also understand that you are planting seeds of criticism in your own life.  What you do will come back to you. 

So are you a critic or an encourager?

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