A thought by Mike Bechtle from his book, Dealing with the Elephant in the Room: Moving from Tough Conversations to Healthy Communication (p. 34). Baker Publishing Group. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) But to make it work we really need to know what we are doing. As Mike says, “If we don’t have the right tools, we’re limited in how far we can go.” He later says, “Anyone, regardless of their age, can add new tools to their communication toolbox. The first step is to recognize which tools are missing. That can be done by seeing where the pain is in relationships that current tools won’t handle. Then the search begins to find the tools that will do the job. “That means there’s hope. If we have the right tools, we can become effective in communication. It doesn’t mean every conversation will be perfect because we’re imperfect—and so are the people we communicate with. But with the right resources, we’ll be able to approach
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