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“You and I will win or lose in life by the paths we choose.”

A thought by Andy Stanley (2009-03-31) in his book, The Principle of the Path: How to Get fromWhere You Are to Where You Want to Be (p. 15). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. Life is filled with choices.  It really is. ü   I can choose to be angry or I can choose to understand and forgive.  ü   I can live with regrets because of what life has thrown at me or I can live with excitement for the opportunity of each new day.  ü   I can choose to spend or I can choose to save.   ü   I can cower in fear of the unknown or risk and move into unchartered waters.  ü   I can eat donuts or eat salads. ü   I can serve God or I can serve myself. ü   I can live with self-pity or I can live with joy. ü   I can listen and join in to negativity or I can turn it off, walk away and live positively.   ü   I can be hurt or I can be healed. ü   I can yell or I can listen. ü   I can grow cold or I can tell you where you hurt me. ü   I can act like a child or I can act like an adult. ü   I ca

“When we make our central message anything other than the gospel of grace, we end up being known as a people of hate—judgmental, hypocritical, and defined by what we are against.”

A thought by Darren Whitehead and Jon Tyson (2011-07-19) from their book, Rumors of God: Experience the Kind of Faith You´ve Only Heard About (Kindle Locations 1160-1161). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. Somewhere along the line we got off track.  They say it takes only two generations to get away from the core values of any organization and that for sure has been true of us.  So why in the world would we take the greatest announcement that was ever given and make it the complete opposite?  I mean Jesus came into the world to save it not to condemn it.  That is what He said and that is what He did. Now we live today in a world where we believe that people should get what they deserve.  This is one of the main reasons for a lot of people’s anger.  Somewhere in their life they didn’t get what they deserved in a positive way and it makes them angry.  Or someone did something wrong and they don’t get punished as they deserved to be punished and that makes them angry.  But here is th

“You make decisions today as if today is isolated from tomorrow.”

A thought by Andy Stanley (2009-03-31) in his book The Principle of the Path: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be (p. 41). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. Over this weekend Irene came to visit us here on Long Island.  We knew she was coming.  All week we had followed her on TV.  I became close friends with the people on The Weather Channel and NBC Channel 4 New York City. Now we had some decisions to make on Saturday that affected us on Sunday when Irene was on the Island.  Sunday was not the time to go to the grocery store because they were all boarded up and closed.  We were almost too late on Saturday for some things and we never did find extra flashlights.  I find this fact also true in my task of trying to lose weight.  I may really want those vanilla cream filled donuts from Dunkin Donuts and I may convince myself that eating them won’t affect me but when I get on the scale the next morning I know the truth.  What I eat today will affect my weight tomorrow

“I define anxiety as experiencing failure in advance…and if you have anxiety about initiating a project, then of course you will associate risk with failure.”

A thought by Seth Godin (2011-03-01) in his book, Poke the Box (p. 14). The Domino Project. Kindle Edition. Somehow risking has been taken out of our life style because we are so afraid to fail.   Think about this...   I am a Los Angeles Dodgers’ fan.   I love baseball and I love the Dodgers.   To be honest it is tough being an LA fan this year.   But any way, yesterday they played the St Louis Cardinals and a rookie by the name of Justin Sellers lead off.   That means he is the first batter of the game.   Now what if he sees that he is leading off so he goes to the manager and says, “Thanks, Mr. Mattingly for the confidence that you have placed in me but I am too afraid of leading off the game because I might strike out so could you put me down in the batting order?”   What do you think Don Mattingly the Dodgers’ manager would do?   He probably would send him to the minors to never ever play for the Dodgers again.   Now the truth is, Sellers was on base two times and scored one ru

“Jesus himself was more concerned with engagement than condemnation.”

A thought by Gabe Lyons (2010-10-05) in his book, The Next Christians: The Good News Aboutthe End of Christian America (p. 81). Doubleday Religion. Kindle Edition. I’m not always sure what Christ some of us Christ followers follow.   Does that make sense?   I mean, we spend so much of our time in the condemnation business and running away from or pushing away the type of people that Jesus spent time with.   We do the opposite of what Jesus came to do.   It seems it is so easy for us to paint Jesus as one who is pointing His finger in judgment instead of reaching His hand out in compassion.   Why is that?   Are we reading a different gospel than the ones at the beginning of the New Testament? Now His way is tough.   That is true.   I mean He was rejected and then killed.   There is always that potential in engagement.   But isn’t that what we have signed up for?   There are risks in being an authentic Christ follower.   Maybe we want the title without the risks.   But He said we

“Receiving grace is often easier than dispensing it.”

A thought by Andy Stanley (2010-10-19) in his book, The Grace of God (p. 117). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. I don’t know if you are married or not but if you are you experience conflict every once in a while.   This is especially true if there are two very strong willed people in the marriage.   Conflict just happens but resolving it and coming out of it with the relationship in tack means someone hast to stop and listen to what the other person is saying.    If the relationship is important, at some point one of the two will decide to stop telling their side and listen to the other side.   When this happens there will be a resolution to the conflict. Now which is easier?   To be gracious and to stop trying to get them to understand your side or to be the one who is allowed to tell their side.   Of course being the one allowed to continue has the easier time but the one who stops and listens is deeply rewarded.   It is great to receive grace but it is also great to give it. I h

“God can be trusted but not manipulated.”

A thought by Andy Stanley (2009-03-31) in his book, The Principle of the Path: How to Get fromWhere You Are to Where You Want to Be (p. 168). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. There was a game show back in the late 50’s emceed by Johnny Carson before he went on to Tonight Show fame called Who Do You Trust ?    Let me ask you that question, who do you trust more, you or God? I know what the answer we give is but I don’t think it is the answer we live.  In some things we may be afraid to trust God so we try to manipulate Him through all this good stuff we do hoping He will reward us and give us what we want. Have you ever had someone act sooo nice to you and compliment you and you know they have an ulterior motive?  They want something from you.  Kids sometimes do that with parents.  Does it work?  It doesn’t work with God either.  He knows our heart.  He knows our motives.  He also knows what’s best.   He can be trusted and He won’t allow us to manipulate Him. Solomon wrote somet