“Our readiness to forgive will draw others to ourselves in that we will be known as a safe place to fail.”
A thought by Erwin Raphael McManus (2003-09-04) from his book, Uprising: A Revolution of the Soul (Kindle Location 1741). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. What a great thing to be, a safe place to fail. I have within me the perfectionism of a melancholic. That is where God has been working on me all of my life in my relationships. The success of dealing with it started with me failing and needed His forgiveness. I think it has helped to make me a safe place to fail. Are you hard on people? Are you quick to be hurt by them and then holding a grudge, never forgiving them? Then you are a very lonely person. Then you are not a safe person to be around because none of us are perfect, we all fail. Have you ever been forgiven? How did it make you feel toward the person who forgave you? I mean you hurt them and they forgave you. For one it freed them from the act of you hurting them. They were free of the pain and the possible bitterness that they could have