A thought by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend from their book, It's Not My Fault . (pg. 45) Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) Maybe it has been a while since you have heard these two words. John says, “The active voice connotes that someone is doing something; the passive voice indicates that something is being done.” Ok, that is what they mean. John says, “They just convey different realities. But the problem comes when people use passive language to explain their choices in such a way that they disown responsibility, ownership, and empowerment . They have selected a way of thinking and communicating to others that hampers their ability to take charge and take action to get what they need.” He goes on, “Let’s look at some examples of using passive language, and how it could be recast in ways more helpful in meeting your goals: “• I was prevented from getting to the meeting on time by t
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