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“Your interaction with others sets the tone of your day.”

A thought by John C. Maxwell from his book, Make Today Count: The Secret of Your Success Is Determined by Your Daily Agenda (p. 5). Center Street. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

Stop and think about that thought a moment and then think about your good days and then your bad ones.  Then think about your interaction with others.

John says, “One of the secrets of maintaining a good attitude is valuing people. You can’t dislike people and have a good attitude at the same time. Think about it: Have you ever met anyone who always treated people badly but had a positive attitude? Likewise, you cannot have a bad attitude and encourage others at the same time. Encouraging others means helping people, looking for the best in them, and trying to bring out their positive qualities. That process drives negative thoughts right out of your head.”

He then says, “Your interaction with others sets the tone of your day. It’s like the music of your life. When your interaction with others is poor, it’s like having to listen to cacophonous music. But when you place a high value on people and you treat them well, it’s like listening to a sweet melody as you go through your day.”

I want that sweet melody going through my day, don’t you?
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