“When life doesn’t go according to plan, we naturally look for someone or something to blame.”

A thought by Mark Batterson (2014-09-02) from his book, The Grave Robber: How Jesus Can Make Your Impossible Possible (p. 213). Baker Publishing Group. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

As Rick Warren has said. “To blame is to be lame” but it is an easy thing to do. It started way back in the Garden of Eden where Adam blamed Eve and then got around to blame God. Their eating the forbidden was really God’s fault because He created the woman.

So are you a blamer? When something happens that really is your fault do you strive to find someone to blame? I mean you are really in debt but it’s your spouce’s fault. They just need, need, and want, want, want so you have to spend, spend, spend. Or it’s the Democrat’s/Republican’s fault when it really it is your fault.

But as Mark says, “But no one wins at the blame game! And it’s usually followed by a postgame pity party. At some point, we must recognize that the circumstances we ask God to change are often the very circumstances God is using to change us. We don’t always get an answer to our why questions on this side of eternity, but sometimes God leaves clues.”

God does have a plan and He knows what is best and He is working and it doesn’t matter the why, what matters is you accept that He loves you and that He is working in your life. Just trust Him.

So what circumstance are you looking for someone to blame?

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