“Feelings aren’t always the magic key to a great leadership decision, but they must not be ignored.”
A thought by John Townsend from his book, Leading From Your Gut (p. 83). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) We do too many times see them as negative, don’t we? John says, “Sometimes leaders describe a thought as a feeling (a typically male phenomenon). For example, the leader will say, ‘I feel that we need to allocate more resources to marketing.’ But that is not an accurate expression of emotion. Emotions aren’t ideas; they are internal responses.” He goes on, “There are, of course, good reasons for hesitation when it comes to incorporating emotions in leadership. We have all seen situations in which a leader gave vent to some emotion and made a huge error in judgment. Or we’ve been in other situations in which fear and anxiety caused a leader to shrink back rather than boldly move forward, and bad outcomes followed. Or we’ve witnessed how intense feelings alienated a leader from those close to him. T