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“Hurt people hurt people.”

A thought by Rick Warren from his book. God's Power to Change Your Life (Living with Purpose) (p. 54). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)

There are a lot of hurting people who are out hurting people.  Maybe that is true of you on both sides.

Rick says, “If someone is hurting you, that person is doing so because he or she is hurting. We need to look beyond people’s faults and see their needs. Then we can learn to love.

“Have you discovered that the most obnoxious people and the least lovable people are those who need love the most? The people we would rather ignore are the very ones who desperately need massive doses of love. Everyone needs love. If a person can’t get love, he will strive for attention. And if he can’t get positive attention, he will work at attracting negative attention. Subconsciously, he is saying, ‘I will be noticed, one way or another.’”

Rick then says, “We cannot change our feelings, but we can go in the back door and change our thoughts. When we change the way we think about someone, we will gradually change our feelings about that person. And if instead of thinking about a person’s faults we begin to think about his or her needs, it will change the way we feel. Try it and see for yourself!”

Ok, will you try it?

Yes, yes!
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