A thought by Steven Pressfield (2010-08-30) from his
book, The War Of Art: Winning the Inner Creative Battle (p. 7). PREMIERE. Kindle Edition.
Whenever
you make a commitment to do something to better yourself or someone else there
is always going to be a challenge to start and also to keep doing it. It will be a daily struggle.
Now
if it is to go to Disney World then you are wide awake and ready to go way
before you need to get up. But if you
are in your fifth month of working there it takes an alarm to get you up and
most people wait till the last moment to get up and go. It is always easier to get up to do fun than
it is to do work.
I have
always said that we do what we want to do.
When someone used the excuse to me as a Pastor that they couldn’t make
it to church because they were up late I would then say to myself, “We do what
we want to do.” If they were going to Disney
World they wouldn’t use that excuse because they want to go to Disney World.
Now
that to me is the key to overcome resistance, to put the things that really
make a difference into my want side. We
go to church in Manhattan. It takes
about 40 minutes to drive in and about 1 hour + to drive home. It is going to be windy and cold tomorrow and
our kids are off to a Couples Retreat but it is going to be our last Sunday to
be able to go to Forefront Church because we are moving so we really want to
go. The inconvenience, the weather will
not keep us from going because we really want to go.
I
have a lot to do today to get ready for our move but I also felt it was
important to make the extra effort through some resistance to write this
thought today. I’m glad that I didn’t
give into all the obstacles but did it. I
did it because I have a driving desire to make a difference in peoples’ lives
so I resisted the lessor desire to take a break. It is a daily battle. Most of the time I resist the resistance but
it is always there. I always feel it
pulling at me.
Don’t
give up in doing what you know that you need to do. Put the need into a deep want and see if that
will help you in fighting the battle of resistance. For example: I fight the urge every morning to
go to Dunkin Donut to get a Coffee Cake Muffin by getting on the scale every
day and recording my weight. I want to
weigh less than 200 lbs. more than I want to have that muffin and recording my
weight everyday helps me resist.
Resistance
is real. It can keep you from so much
good. But it can be dealt with if you
really want to.
So what
need to you need to turn into a greater want?
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