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"Look for virtues, not flaws, in the people around you, and you will find a beautiful path forward in your life."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 31). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) Very good idea. Bob continues his thought, "Modern-day cynics don’t roll this way. It seems like they always wake up on the wrong side of the bed. They are like snipers, but they are far from courageous. They elevate themselves, then camouflage their positions. They hide in the lofty places they construct, then take potshots at the people they want to exert control over. If you don’t agree with them or don’t yield to their opinions, you become a target yourself.  . . If you play the cynic, please stop, for your sake and ours. I know you think you are being helpful, but the hard truth is, you are not. You may not realize it, but you are a distraction." Bob says, "I don’t think this is an overstatement: Modern-day cynicism has likely cost the world hearts, lives, cures for diseases, and trillions of dollars. It has also ruine...

"We expend so much energy trying to feel secure and hide any sense we are afraid."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 27). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) Is that true of you? Bob says, "We construct walls and put up our bulletproof glass so nothing can hurt us. Sadly, we can spend our entire lives constructing a façade of security and safety, when inside we are just scared people in need of a friend." He continues, "Do you need the courage to admit, even now, that you have been pretending to be something you are not? Are you a prisoner needing space to get real? Have you been distracted by your need to never seem weak or afraid or vulnerable? Are you spending weird amounts of time trying to control the people around you because your life on the inside is out of control? How much energy is that taking out of you—energy you could pour into something bigger and more beautiful than your insecurities?" He goes on, "We’re all inwardly insecure to some degree. What shroud...

"A life without reflection is like a vapor."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 20). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) This is so important to realize. Bob says, "Socrates said an unexamined life isn’t worth living. I don’t agree that such a life is not worth living, but I would concede we are prone to forgetting about self-reflection. If you have young kids or a stressful job, you especially know how hard life can be. Some days you crash into bed exhausted, just to get up and do it again . . . and again . . . and again. String together enough days like that, and you’ll look up someday wondering where the years have gone. Don’t get sucked into that trap. Write down all of the lessons you learned from each day. A life without reflection is like a vapor." He continues, "James, the brother of Jesus, said in one of his letters that none of us knows what will happen tomorrow. He said our lives are like a mist that appears for a little while and ...

"If you don’t net those butterflies immediately, I promise they will fly away."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 18). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) That is so true, so true. Bob continues that thought, "Take notes while you read this or any other book. Write down how you are going to apply the parts that make sense to you. If you don’t net those butterflies immediately, I promise they will fly away. Do this, then study and refine those notes, and you will find connections between the ideas you have scribbled down in the middle of the conversation and ones you had in other conversations. You will capture meaningful, partially developed, and applicable ideas you can incorporate into your life. As you use what you have written down, they will create a feedback loop as they evolve into fuller, more complete ideas. If you don’t take the time to capture and process your interior world, you will miss the opportunity to discover something bigger and more beautiful in your heart." ...

"... I’ve been telling myself that I want to be the guy who’s available."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 17). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) That is important to him, and it really makes a difference in people's lives. He continues, "That’s why I put my cell phone number in the back of more than a million of my books. From the outside looking in, that probably looks like a move that would wreck any kind of productivity in my life. That’s true, I suppose, if you’re only trying to live an efficient, productive life. But I’m not, and here’s why. We will be known for our opinions but remembered for the love we gave to everyone around us. If I have my head down over a project and can’t be bothered to shift focus, I’ll miss a good chance to show love and grace to the person next to me—and that’s not the life I want to live. Receiving a truly ridiculous number of telephone calls each day is a great reminder of who I want to be. These don’t feel like interruptions; they are r...

"We can all be new creations if we want to be."

  A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 13). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) It's hard to believe but it's true. Bob continues this thought, "The cold hard truth is most people don’t. We settle for the safe and distracted life we know rather than the one God has promised is available to us. Sure, we can agree that Jesus wants us to be new creations, but if we keep doing what we’ve always done, we’ve got to admit there’s nothing new about it. A total reset isn’t easy, and it involves risk. Maybe an enormous tragedy or loss causes us to reset. Or a reset might be the result of making time to clear our minds in the morning. Find a new rhythm for your heart. Here is my simple suggestion: Decide in advance that you will do whatever it takes to get your heart right, and then do it—even if it will kill all previous versions of you." He says, "You need to ask yourself what makes your heart beat in...

"There is a lot of second-best available to all of us."

A thought by Bob Goff in his book,  Undistracted   (p. 6). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition. (Click on the book title to go to Amazon to buy the book.) And we don't really like second best, do we? Bob says, "Let’s be honest with each other. There is a lot of second-best available to all of us. If we aren’t aware of the alternatives, we won’t realize we are settling for less than what is accessible to us. This book won’t tell you what to think or what to do, but I hope it reminds you about who you already are. You are someone who has permission to live with an unreasonable, unthinkable, totally absurd amount of focus, purpose, joy, and fulfillment." He continues, "Here are a few questions I have for you as we begin this journey. Are you willing to do what it takes to uncover the wonder that already surrounds your life? Will you do the courageous work to identify what is distracting you from the better things? And finally, are you willing to do the difficult and selfless...