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“The soul needs a future.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 112). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) I think that is an important thought for us to realize on this Thanksgiving Day.   I like how John puts it, “God planted eternity in our hearts so that we would not stop seeking life beyond ourselves.”   That is why the act of giving thanks no matter your situation is so necessary in handling life.   Our soul wants you to understand that this is not the end, we have a future. We are going to spend time with one set of our kids today.   Now I don’t think that Margaret will remember all the pain that had happened when Brett was born or our daughter in-law, Marissa will think about the pain when Ashlyn and Addison were each born.   Yes there was great pain in the moment, terrible pain but as John says, “What starts in pain, ends in joy.”   I know they are so thankful for the l

“There are two main enemies that lead to a soul disconnected from its center.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 105). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) John says, “One is sin. Sin cannot coexist with a soul centered on God. If I choose to live in bitterness, or to indulge lust, or to deceive my wife, I am choosing to keep God out of my thoughts.” And then he says, “The other disconnect is what might be called the ‘troublesome thought.’ This soul-enemy is actually much more pervasive. It’s not necessarily a sin. It’s simply a way of thinking that does not take God into account. The troublesome thought begins with any normal concern you might have. For example, you open your quarterly statement from your 401K and notice that instead of gaining, your fund lost a few hundred dollars. Certainly reason to be concerned, but then you begin a succession of thoughts that practically consume you: Will I have enough to retire? What if

“A soul without a center lacks patience.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 101). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) We are one month away from Christmas.   Talk about a time that we need to keep our soul centered on God.    This is not usually a time that we are patient but a time that we can be in a total rush.   And that is so true in the church. I used to be a Youth and Music Pastor.   I usually during this season would be working toward a major Christmas concert in my music area and working toward a major activity for Christmas Eve in my youth area.   What that meant was I got sick between Christmas and New Year’s. So I also think it is important for us to put Christ into our Christmas as Christians.   We had a fun time Thanksgiving night last year.   We went shopping.   It was a mess but it was a great time to get deals and we did.   But it was total chaos. But I think i

“The difference between talking to yourself and talking to your soul is that the soul exists in the presence of God.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 92). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) We hear a lot about the need for positive self-talk.   But John shows the need for soul talk and he shares, “you will see in the Psalms and elsewhere people speaking to their souls because when you speak to the soul, it naturally turns to prayer because in the soul God is always present.” I like what John said earlier that “Habits eat willpower for breakfast.”   We need more than will power, we need God’s power in so many areas of our like and that comes through prayer.   John says, “The next time you blow something — when you’re frightened, when you’re dissatisfied — instead of mindless self-talk, speak to your soul: ‘Why are you afraid, O my soul?’ At first it might seem a little silly, but remember, you are the keeper of your soul. Only you.” He continued, “Not

“Our capacity to live in denial about the law of consequences is huge and is damaging to the soul.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 91). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) It is so easy to live in a state of denial isn’t it?   Such as… …I can eat a dozen Cinnamon Rolls from Winchell’s and it won’t affect my weight. …I can have an affair but it won’t hurt my marriage. …I can let my temper fly and it won’t hurt my relationships. …I can have an attitude at work and get away with it. …I can spend, spend, spend and I won’t get into debt. …I can never go to church or never read my Bible and it won’t hurt my relationship with Christ. But no matter how much you believe those statements your denial of the law of consequences will be huge and damaging. Now there is also a positive side to this law of consequences.   If I live by or use the law of consequences for my good then it will have a positive effect in my life.   Such as…  

“When my mind focuses on that which is good, the integrating power of the soul calls to my will to choose it, and my body to live it.”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (2014-04-22). Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 77). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.) Here we see the importance of focus and how it can make such a difference in our behavior and how we handle life. John tells of an experiment with 450 students at UCLA.   “Researchers divided them into two groups and asked one group to remember some trivial memory: ten books you had been assigned to read in high school. They asked the other group to try to remember the Ten Commandments. The students in the ten books memory group engaged in typical widespread cheating. The students in the Ten Commandments group did not cheat at all. Merely the act of trying to remember the Ten Commandments made them think, ‘I was made for something better.’ This despite the fact that not a single student in the Ten Commandm

“The greatest predictor of mortality among senior citizens in our day ends up being their grandchildren…”

A thought by John Ortberg (2014-04-22) from his book, Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You (p. 74). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. (Click on the title to go to Amazon.com to buy the book.)   Here is the end of this thought, “…ends up being their grandchildren’s GPAs.   Let me show you what he is talking about.   “Sin’s ability to disintegrate the soul is the subject of a book by a Duke professor named Dan Ariely. In The Honest Truth about Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone — Especially Ourselves , Ariely is astounded by how widespread people’s tendency is to cheat, be self-centered, lie, and be deceitful. He discovered that we are driven by two primary motivations. One, we want to receive selfish gain. We want to avoid pain. We want it so much that we are willing to lie or cheat or deceive for it. We want what we want, and we’re willing to cheat to get it. Two, we want to be able to look in the mirror and think well of ourselves. That means we all want to